A Guide to Finding Your Life Purpose

Everyone wants to have a fulfilling life. Unfortunately, many people miss a key ingredient to have it: finding their life purpose. They may spend years of their life only to find at the end that they have done the wrong things. Many others achieve fame and financial success but feel empty inside.

Don’t make the same mistake. Your time is too precious to waste.

Why You Should Find Your Life Purpose

Here are three reasons why you should find your life purpose:

1. It gives meaning to everything you do.

Your life purpose makes everything you do meaningful. You could be successful outside, but if you don’t find meaning you will feel empty inside.

2. It directs and guides you.

Not only can your life purpose give you meaning, but also it can give you clear direction of where to go in life. It helps you make big decisions in life. People who don’t find their life purpose don’t have a strong foundation upon which to make their decisions. They most likely will just follow popular opinions.

Besides helping you make big decisions, your life purpose can also guide you in making small decisions. When you have two options in front of you, it will be easier for you to decide if you know what your life purpose is.

3. It motivates you.

In life there are always difficult times to go through. You may experience failures or rejections. In such situations, your life purpose can give you the motivation you need to keep going.

How can your life purpose do that? By helping you see beyond the horizon. What you face in front of you may seem difficult but your life purpose helps you see beyond it.

Finding Life Purpose Is Not Easy

It’s never easy to find life purpose. In fact, it’s one of the most difficult things to do. Here are two reasons why finding life purpose is difficult:

1. It doesn’t have a universal formula.

Life purpose is a personal thing. Everyone has different purpose and different way to find it. What apply to me might not apply to you and vice versa.

2. It takes time.

This is perhaps the main reason why many people never find their life purpose. They want results instantly. Unfortunately, finding life purpose doesn’t work that way. It’s more like a journey than a one-time stop.

Tips to Find Your Life Purpose

While finding life purpose is a personal experience, there are a few tips that can help you find it. Here they are:

1. Don’t expect instant result.

I’ve written above that finding life purpose takes time so don’t expect to find it soon. It’s a journey and rather than complaining about your journey you’d better enjoy it.

2. Identify your strengths.

Your life purpose is related to your personal strengths. If you are strong in learning, for instance, it’s likely that your life purpose is related to learning. One way to find personal strengths is through StrengthsFinder test which can be found in the book StrengthsFinder 2.0.

3. Identify your passions.

I’ve written about passions multiple times here. Your passions are things you do because of love and not because of external reward such as money or recognition. Find and develop your multiple passions.

4. Identify your causes.

Identify the causes that matter to you. Is there a condition in the world that makes you feel discontent? Is there a condition that makes you feel the urge to do something about it?

5. Find the intersection between your strengths, passions, and causes.

Now that you have identified your strengths, passions, and causes, you can find the intersection between them:

  • Pick a cause from your list of causes.
  • From your list of strengths, pick those that can help you improve the situation in the cause.
  • From the strengths you pick, find the ones you can work on with enthusiasm.

You can repeat this exercise until you find a cause which have strong intersection with your strengths and passions. At the end of the exercise, you will find a cause you deeply care about for which you can effectively do something with enthusiasm. This is a clear sign of your life purpose.

6. Write a personal mission statement.

Based on what you find in the previous step, write a personal mission statement. It’s your one-liner that concisely communicate what your life purpose is. Don’t worry about getting it right on the first try. Just write down what you’ve got and build upon it.

7. Do something about the intersection.

Your one-liner is your guide to finding your life purpose. It may still be broad, so you should keep refining it. The way to refine it is by working on it. Make serious effort to act upon what you’ve found. Increase your competence and find ways to contribute to the cause you choose. Your effort will give you feedback that will either reinforce or diminish your interest on the subject.

8. Act based on the feedback to refine your personal mission statement.

If the feedback from the previous step reinforces the purpose you’ve found, over time you will get better understanding of what exactly your life purpose is and how you should fulfill it. You may create new one-liners as you find new clues. This process of refining may take years but you are going in the right direction. You just need to keep your eyes and mind open to recognize every new clue regarding your strengths, passions and causes.


I wrote my first personal mission statement in 2004 and it stayed for three years until I wrote my second (and current) one in 2007. I walk with it and I’m getting better and better idea about the precise nature of my life purpose.

I enjoy my journey. I hope you do too.


  1. Great post and topic, Donald! Finding your purpose in life is a joy and a duty. Your tips should help people figure it out. I share my tips on how to do that, too, in my series “All About You!” at http://shanelyang.com/2008/07/18/all-about-you/

  2. Finding your life purpose is definitely something that is unique to the individual. For some it can be clear what it is, and to others it does indeed take time to find.
    Many times, your life purpose will find you. Just don’t let it pass you by when it does!
    Nietzsche said “Life without music is a mistake.” I couldn’t agree more, but feel even more strongly about “life without passion is a mistake”

  3. POINT 2: Do you believe that identifying and acting upon personal weaknesses is also important? I believe that many people don’t accept their own weaknesses and by doing so their weakness actually work against them. Surely by having an awareness of what you don’t do so well you can ask for help when faced with certain situation where you know that your weakness will become apparent? What do you think?
    POINT 4: Surely you may be concerned about something but it’s not inside of your circle of influence? Wouldn’t it be better to make a clear distinction here?

  4. Shanel,

    Finding your purpose in life is a joy and a duty.

    A joy and a duty. I like the way you put it!

    Many times, your life purpose will find you.

    I agree. What you need to have is a prepared mind to recognize your life purpose when it passes. Hopefully the tips above can help us have a prepared mind.
    Regarding life purpose, I think identifying your strengths is more important than identifying your weaknesses. The reason is because I believe your life purpose is related to your strengths and not your weaknesses.
    Knowing your weaknesses, however, is helpful to know when to ask for help (as you said).
    For point 4, yes, what I mean here is something inside your circle of influence. You should be able to do something about it or it can’t be your purpose.

  5. A personal mission statement is so important. I once learned that when progress is measured progress improves. When progress is measured and reported, the rate of improvement accelerates!

  6. I believe life purpose is the key to living a happy and fulfilling life. Is it possible that “mid-life crisis” is merely a search for more meaning and purpose in our lives. I know that was the case for me.
    Discovering my purpose immediately changed my life. This didn’t happen overnight, just like you said, but rather was a journey of introspection. From there, designing my mission statement was fairly easy.
    Here’s the great part…everything I do, professionally and personally, is in alignment with my purpose and the mission statement I created. Work is fun because it’s not only what I’m meant to do, but it brings out the best in me – my strengths. Play time is just more fun because I now surround myself with people that support me rather than hold me back.
    You have some great tips and tools and suggestions for readers to find their own path. Here’s one more that we’ve found helpful to others:
    Look back on your life and identify when you’ve been the happiest. What was it about those situations that made you happy? Was there a sense of fulfillment and if so, why? Did you make someone laugh. Did you help someone through a tough time? Were you doing something you love to do?
    When you look back at these times, you’ll begin seeing a pattern. This may make it easier for you to identify your purpose when you combine it with your natural strengths.
    Thanks for the great information!

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  14. Arts Musings,

    Look back on your life and identify when you’ve been the happiest.

    Great suggestion. I agree, doing that can help us identify our purpose.

    Fact, if you do not have purpose, you die.

    That’s a truth that sadly many people don’t realize. When we don’t have a purpose, we don’t live our own life.

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  20. Michelle,
    It’s true that passions and strengths aren’t always the path to purpose, but I think they are useful clues. Thanks for stopping by!

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  30. Interesting article Donald. I’ve just add a completary article on my blog. You can read it at :http://positivethinking.penseepositive.net/life/discovering-your-lifes-purpose/
    All the best.

  31. mae claire loquillano
    mae claire loquillano

    life is what we make…do not allow the negative responces of others determine your value..trying hard is not bad,it is the way of achieving your goals in life.

  32. I’m totally agree with you Mae Claire 🙂

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    Simply we just need to take the time to think about the things we are already doing and expand on them.
    Excellent article and I will come back on a regular basis to look at this site.

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  36. Peaceful Greetings!
    While I certainly appreciate the entire post, I especially appreciate #s 4, 5 & 6 considering I have an ongoing series on my blog–Follow Your Bliss/Live Your Life Purpose.
    @ Rob: identify weaknesses; they’re our strengths waiting to be acknowledged and cultivated …
    I like this site. I shall return and check it out more when time permits!!

  37. One of my all time favorite quotes comes from theologian Frederick Buechner, “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”

    • Wow. Reading that just floored me.
      Rather than finding that place (where my deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet) and calling that my purpose; I would say my purpose is the seeking of that place.

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  44. Nice article, Donald..You have written on an important aspect..I think focusing on one’s natural talents and abilities is a sure-fire way to set the life purpose..

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