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		<title>By: Personal Development and well being Carnival Mar 2010 &#124; KARTHIK RAJ G</title>
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		<dc:creator>Personal Development and well being Carnival Mar 2010 &#124; KARTHIK RAJ G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 11:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: HP van Duuren</title>
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		<dc:creator>HP van Duuren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 19:24:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;em&gt;&#039;Wasting Time&#039;&lt;/em&gt; can sometimes get you new &lt;em&gt;&#039;Leads&#039;&lt;/em&gt;, you would have missed when you where focussing to much on results&#039; 

I work in Sales and usually get pretty amazing results, I
have been &lt;em&gt;&#039;Marketeer of the Months&#039;&lt;/em&gt; several times, - and this might surprise you - while every body seems to be focused on getting results, I &lt;strong&gt;DON&#039;T&lt;/strong&gt; focus on Results!!!

&lt;em&gt;(&#039;Because if I focus on results to much, soon I will be focussing on frustration.....,and I will be preocupied with my mind and won&#039;t be able to be in &lt;strong&gt;&#039;the Now&#039;&lt;/strong&gt; anymore (or &#039;In the Zone&#039;) - the place - where I create the actual results&#039;)&lt;/em&gt;

&lt;em&gt;So, &lt;/em&gt;

Instead I focus on having a good conversation, I like to communicate with the customer, focus on making the whole process enjoyable for the customer. (and also for me!) and 
even if I don&#039;t have actual results..., 

I do think that I don&#039;t alway&#039;s have to view not making the sale as &lt;em&gt;&#039;Wasting time&#039; &lt;/em&gt;

Because it&#039;s a great way to learn about how my customers think, and I do think that also - as a side effect - I automatically build &lt;em&gt;&#039;rapport&#039;&lt;/em&gt; sometimes even discover new leads, and because of that, I usually happen to have pretty amazing Sales Results. 

&lt;em&gt;(I sometimes even &#039;convert&#039; a customer that&#039;s in a somewhat &#039;hostile&#039;-state, into a more &#039;receptive&#039;-state, or even into a &#039;Buy-Happy&#039;-state, simply because they want to reward my genuine effort to help them.)&lt;/em&gt;

If I understand it correctly you take full responsibility for if you are not performing at a certain rate..? 

Although I do think that there might be situations that that&#039;s a logical approach, on the other hand, If that&#039;s what you are saying I also wonder if you might not just possibly be slightly unrealistic about it. 

Because although I do agree that on the other end of the spectrum, always having all kinds of excuses for everything can be highly questionable, I do think that sometimes there simply can be good reasons for less performance. 

For example if you sell a bad product and people find out about it, it can be a good reason that your conversion rate drops, or if you operate in a market that - &lt;em&gt;for example because of recession &lt;/em&gt;- is decreasing.

So I don&#039;t think that it&#039;s &#039;Healthy&#039; to be to much focused on
results in a to &#039;Greedy&#039; way. I don&#039;t really trust sales people that only seem to be trying to get on their target, I don&#039;t think that they are to much inclined to serve my interests.    

All the Best, 
To your Happy Inspiration, 
HP</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&#8216;Wasting Time&#8217;</em> can sometimes get you new <em>&#8216;Leads&#8217;</em>, you would have missed when you where focussing to much on results&#8217; </p>
<p>I work in Sales and usually get pretty amazing results, I<br />
have been <em>&#8216;Marketeer of the Months&#8217;</em> several times, &#8211; and this might surprise you &#8211; while every body seems to be focused on getting results, I <strong>DON&#8217;T</strong> focus on Results!!!</p>
<p><em>(&#8217;Because if I focus on results to much, soon I will be focussing on frustration&#8230;..,and I will be preocupied with my mind and won&#8217;t be able to be in <strong>&#8216;the Now&#8217;</strong> anymore (or &#8216;In the Zone&#8217;) &#8211; the place &#8211; where I create the actual results&#8217;)</em></p>
<p><em>So, </em></p>
<p>Instead I focus on having a good conversation, I like to communicate with the customer, focus on making the whole process enjoyable for the customer. (and also for me!) and<br />
even if I don&#8217;t have actual results&#8230;, </p>
<p>I do think that I don&#8217;t alway&#8217;s have to view not making the sale as <em>&#8216;Wasting time&#8217; </em></p>
<p>Because it&#8217;s a great way to learn about how my customers think, and I do think that also &#8211; as a side effect &#8211; I automatically build <em>&#8216;rapport&#8217;</em> sometimes even discover new leads, and because of that, I usually happen to have pretty amazing Sales Results. </p>
<p><em>(I sometimes even &#8216;convert&#8217; a customer that&#8217;s in a somewhat &#8216;hostile&#8217;-state, into a more &#8216;receptive&#8217;-state, or even into a &#8216;Buy-Happy&#8217;-state, simply because they want to reward my genuine effort to help them.)</em></p>
<p>If I understand it correctly you take full responsibility for if you are not performing at a certain rate..? </p>
<p>Although I do think that there might be situations that that&#8217;s a logical approach, on the other hand, If that&#8217;s what you are saying I also wonder if you might not just possibly be slightly unrealistic about it. </p>
<p>Because although I do agree that on the other end of the spectrum, always having all kinds of excuses for everything can be highly questionable, I do think that sometimes there simply can be good reasons for less performance. </p>
<p>For example if you sell a bad product and people find out about it, it can be a good reason that your conversion rate drops, or if you operate in a market that &#8211; <em>for example because of recession </em>- is decreasing.</p>
<p>So I don&#8217;t think that it&#8217;s &#8216;Healthy&#8217; to be to much focused on<br />
results in a to &#8216;Greedy&#8217; way. I don&#8217;t really trust sales people that only seem to be trying to get on their target, I don&#8217;t think that they are to much inclined to serve my interests.    </p>
<p>All the Best,<br />
To your Happy Inspiration,<br />
HP</p>
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		<title>By: Arjan&#8217;s World &#187; LINKBLOG for Feb 8, 2010</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2010/01/27/stop-wasting-time/comment-page-1/#comment-177373</link>
		<dc:creator>Arjan&#8217;s World &#187; LINKBLOG for Feb 8, 2010</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:05:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Stop Wasting Time by Matching Your Past High Levels of Effort &#8211; Armen Shirvanian &#8216; Once your mind reaches a certain understanding, your mind will never go back to not having that understanding. In the same way, you can always return to a production ability, or winning streak, that you once had &#8216; [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Stop Wasting Time by Matching Your Past High Levels of Effort &#8211; Armen Shirvanian &#8216; Once your mind reaches a certain understanding, your mind will never go back to not having that understanding. In the same way, you can always return to a production ability, or winning streak, that you once had &#8216; [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Baker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Baker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Feb 2010 05:29:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good post. Are you familiar with NLP. It basically sums up what you mentioned here as far as being in the state of &quot;being prodcutive&quot; by using anchors and bringing back prodcutive times in your life, and visualizing it to the point where it enters your present reality, thus taking the past productive energy into the present moment, at will. 
I enjoyed this article.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. Are you familiar with NLP. It basically sums up what you mentioned here as far as being in the state of &#8220;being prodcutive&#8221; by using anchors and bringing back prodcutive times in your life, and visualizing it to the point where it enters your present reality, thus taking the past productive energy into the present moment, at will.<br />
I enjoyed this article.</p>
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		<title>By: Ken</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ken</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 22:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Not convinced this is good advice. It invites a dangerous perfectionism.

I used to spend too much time waiting around for the right mood of high peak productivity to hit me before I&#039;d do stuff. Flow is an enjoyable state. How wonderful to do things when we have achieved it.

However, demanding it arrive is an invitation to the worst procrastination. I&#039;m not the only person that has fallen into this trap either. It&#039;s much better for me to trust that I can practice piano, read, or work when I&#039;m not at my best.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not convinced this is good advice. It invites a dangerous perfectionism.</p>
<p>I used to spend too much time waiting around for the right mood of high peak productivity to hit me before I&#8217;d do stuff. Flow is an enjoyable state. How wonderful to do things when we have achieved it.</p>
<p>However, demanding it arrive is an invitation to the worst procrastination. I&#8217;m not the only person that has fallen into this trap either. It&#8217;s much better for me to trust that I can practice piano, read, or work when I&#8217;m not at my best.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan @ Anxiety Support Network</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan @ Anxiety Support Network</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 21:32:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think another point to add is that you should attempt to be doing what you leave, or at least find meaning in what you do.  If you don&#039;t enjoy what you are doing, it will be hard to continue to want to do that at a high level every day.  But, if you do enjoy what you are doing and it has a high meaning to you, then you are well on your way to keeping motivated!  I think this skill gets lost in our modern age, where the focus can be more on our material possessions rather than personal enjoyment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think another point to add is that you should attempt to be doing what you leave, or at least find meaning in what you do.  If you don&#8217;t enjoy what you are doing, it will be hard to continue to want to do that at a high level every day.  But, if you do enjoy what you are doing and it has a high meaning to you, then you are well on your way to keeping motivated!  I think this skill gets lost in our modern age, where the focus can be more on our material possessions rather than personal enjoyment.</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle I Taming Time Management</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michelle I Taming Time Management</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 08:01:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you feel you have slipped into an unproductive phase in your life, using a time management log can help you get back on track.  With a time log you record exactly what you are doing, even just the act of recording truthfully what you are spending your time on can help you to get back on track.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you feel you have slipped into an unproductive phase in your life, using a time management log can help you get back on track.  With a time log you record exactly what you are doing, even just the act of recording truthfully what you are spending your time on can help you to get back on track.</p>
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		<title>By: Richard &#124; RichardShelmerdine.com</title>
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		<dc:creator>Richard &#124; RichardShelmerdine.com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 09:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with the first post. Try remembering the state you were in when it happened and go from there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with the first post. Try remembering the state you were in when it happened and go from there.</p>
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		<title>By: Armen Shirvanian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Armen Shirvanian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 04:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kiesha - That&#039;s pretty cool that it had that effect.  I like when something I put out there has some sort of impact.  You are right about not letting things get in your way, and when they do, it&#039;s good to remember that you got past them at some point in the past.

Jim - If only every post of mine could be inspiring and dangerous~  I&#039;m kidding there.  I hear your point.  Physical constraints are still an issue.  Aside from that, we are still able to match our past intensity in aspects where we are not currently physically limited.  Thanks for adding in that point about maintaining a healthy rate.

Craig - Thanks there.  That&#039;s true.  It might already be a part of how you work, which is a plus.

Farouk - Some would call me a resourceful pioneer, finding new approaches where they were hidden.  Good to hear from you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kiesha &#8211; That&#8217;s pretty cool that it had that effect.  I like when something I put out there has some sort of impact.  You are right about not letting things get in your way, and when they do, it&#8217;s good to remember that you got past them at some point in the past.</p>
<p>Jim &#8211; If only every post of mine could be inspiring and dangerous~  I&#8217;m kidding there.  I hear your point.  Physical constraints are still an issue.  Aside from that, we are still able to match our past intensity in aspects where we are not currently physically limited.  Thanks for adding in that point about maintaining a healthy rate.</p>
<p>Craig &#8211; Thanks there.  That&#8217;s true.  It might already be a part of how you work, which is a plus.</p>
<p>Farouk &#8211; Some would call me a resourceful pioneer, finding new approaches where they were hidden.  Good to hear from you.</p>
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		<title>By: Farouk</title>
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		<dc:creator>Farouk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 14:33:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>brand new approach, congrats for finding it and thanks for telling us about it</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>brand new approach, congrats for finding it and thanks for telling us about it</p>
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