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	<title>Comments on: 7 Characteristics of Good Relationships</title>
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	<description>Live Life to the Fullest - Personal Growth and Effectiveness</description>
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		<title>By: axel g</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-104777</link>
		<dc:creator>axel g</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 12:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That's beautiful!

Successful relationships call for selflessness and consideration...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s beautiful!</p>
<p>Successful relationships call for selflessness and consideration&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Theme for September 2008 and Monthly Roundup of August 2008</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-101429</link>
		<dc:creator>Theme for September 2008 and Monthly Roundup of August 2008</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 10:40:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 7 Characteristics of Good Relationships [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Aesthetic Thoughts</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-100459</link>
		<dc:creator>Aesthetic Thoughts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 00:34:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found these 7 tips very refreshing for me. Thank you :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found these 7 tips very refreshing for me. Thank you :)</p>
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		<title>By: Telling It Like It Is</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-95240</link>
		<dc:creator>Telling It Like It Is</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 15:16:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;What Grown Children Owe Their Parents...&lt;/strong&gt;

What do grown children owe their parents? Do adult children owe their parents for what they’ve done while growing up? What does honor thy father and honor thy mother really mean? What are the duties and responsibilities towards elderly parents by the...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>What Grown Children Owe Their Parents&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>What do grown children owe their parents? Do adult children owe their parents for what they’ve done while growing up? What does honor thy father and honor thy mother really mean? What are the duties and responsibilities towards elderly parents by the&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-94441</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 16:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrew,
It's great that you have passed the "test". Supporting and listening are easier said than done, but you and your wife make it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrew,<br />
It&#8217;s great that you have passed the &#8220;test&#8221;. Supporting and listening are easier said than done, but you and your wife make it!</p>
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		<title>By: GreatManagement</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-94312</link>
		<dc:creator>GreatManagement</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 12:03:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very effective post, Donald. Simply excellent.

My wife and I (married for 24 years) recently started to learn ballroom and latin dancing. Our relationship has been 'put to the test' during this time and we have come throught it.

How?

Supporting and listening to each other!

Andrew</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very effective post, Donald. Simply excellent.</p>
<p>My wife and I (married for 24 years) recently started to learn ballroom and latin dancing. Our relationship has been &#8216;put to the test&#8217; during this time and we have come throught it.</p>
<p>How?</p>
<p>Supporting and listening to each other!</p>
<p>Andrew</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-94298</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 08:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>janelle,
&lt;blockquote&gt;Any good relationship takes time, patience and understanding.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
I agree completely. I guess that's why it's difficult to build good relationships :)
&lt;blockquote&gt;Most of all, good communication is absolutely essential.&lt;/blockquote&gt;
Again, I agree with you. Good communication can solve a lot of problems. Bad communication, on the other hand, can cause a lot of problems.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>janelle,</p>
<blockquote><p>Any good relationship takes time, patience and understanding.</p></blockquote>
<p>I agree completely. I guess that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s difficult to build good relationships :)</p>
<blockquote><p>Most of all, good communication is absolutely essential.</p></blockquote>
<p>Again, I agree with you. Good communication can solve a lot of problems. Bad communication, on the other hand, can cause a lot of problems.</p>
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		<title>By: janelle</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-94231</link>
		<dc:creator>janelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 18:40:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great advice, Donald.  Personally, I know that relationships are definitely a challenge.  Any good relationship takes time, patience and understanding.  Most of all, good communication is absolutely essential.  If two people are in a relationship and are helping the other to grow in a positive way, then you know you're golden :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great advice, Donald.  Personally, I know that relationships are definitely a challenge.  Any good relationship takes time, patience and understanding.  Most of all, good communication is absolutely essential.  If two people are in a relationship and are helping the other to grow in a positive way, then you know you&#8217;re golden :)</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-94193</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 11:38:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shanel,
Yes, one-sided relationship could cause a lot of problems. It's definitely not a good relationship. 
It's nice to know that you even wrote an e-book about it. Thanks for the information!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shanel,<br />
Yes, one-sided relationship could cause a lot of problems. It&#8217;s definitely not a good relationship.<br />
It&#8217;s nice to know that you even wrote an e-book about it. Thanks for the information!</p>
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		<title>By: Shanel Yang</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/25/good-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-94074</link>
		<dc:creator>Shanel Yang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2008 14:20:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post, Donald!  I agree wholeheartedly with all of your points.  The problem begins when one side is less willing to do all of the above.  Even worse, if the relationship is very much one-sided, then you have one side taking advantage of the other.  I wrote about how to recognize these situations and how to get out of them in my ebook called Cuckoo in Your Nest!  Your readers are welcome to a free copy.  They just need to go to my Home Page and email me through the Contact Form that is there.  Or go to this link:  http://shanelyang.com/2008/07/10/requests-for-cuckoo-in-your-nest/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post, Donald!  I agree wholeheartedly with all of your points.  The problem begins when one side is less willing to do all of the above.  Even worse, if the relationship is very much one-sided, then you have one side taking advantage of the other.  I wrote about how to recognize these situations and how to get out of them in my ebook called Cuckoo in Your Nest!  Your readers are welcome to a free copy.  They just need to go to my Home Page and email me through the Contact Form that is there.  Or go to this link:  <a href="http://shanelyang.com/2008/07/10/requests-for-cuckoo-in-your-nest/" rel="nofollow">http://shanelyang.com/2008/07/10/requests-for-cuckoo-in-your-nest/</a></p>
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