Comments on: Two Basic Relationship Problems http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/ How to Live Life to the Fullest - Personal Growth and Effectiveness Sun, 08 Nov 2009 01:51:56 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: relationship saver http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-105354 relationship saver Tue, 04 Nov 2008 16:44:33 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-105354 Totally agreed. Don't let your relationships slip away - preserve your love and understand eachother. Totally agreed. Don’t let your relationships slip away – preserve your love and understand eachother.

]]> By: Donald Latumahina http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-102894 Donald Latumahina Sat, 18 Oct 2008 09:29:37 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-102894 Trevor, Interesting thought. Selfishness in that sense is indeed necessary. You can't do good to others if you don't love yourself first. Trevor,
Interesting thought. Selfishness in that sense is indeed necessary. You can’t do good to others if you don’t love yourself first.

]]> By: Trevor Emdon http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-102099 Trevor Emdon Sun, 12 Oct 2008 10:37:19 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-102099 Donald - Selfishness is much underrated! Being mean at the expense of someone else, that's despicable, I'd agree. But to be selfish - in its true meaning - is to love yourself first. How can you give to another if you are empty, resentful, exhausted emotionally and/or physically and frustrated? I'd say <em>lack of selfishness</em> is one of the biggest causes of marriage problems and relationship breakups! Trevor. Donald – Selfishness is much underrated! Being mean at the expense of someone else, that’s despicable, I’d agree.

But to be selfish – in its true meaning – is to love yourself first. How can you give to another if you are empty, resentful, exhausted emotionally and/or physically and frustrated?

I’d say lack of selfishness is one of the biggest causes of marriage problems and relationship breakups!

Trevor.

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]]> By: Holistic Healing http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-95466 Holistic Healing Fri, 05 Sep 2008 02:25:55 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-95466 <strong>Carnival of Healing #154: Home Sweet Home...</strong> Welcome to this week’s edition of the Carnival of Healing. The Carnival of Healing is a weekly round-up of blogs across the Internet featuring information about healing, self empowerment, and spirituality. Different bloggers volunteer to host the... Carnival of Healing #154: Home Sweet Home…

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]]> By: Donald Latumahina http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-93755 Donald Latumahina Sat, 23 Aug 2008 06:24:52 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-93755 Josh, I don't know your situation in detail so my suggestion might not apply to you. Anyway, I think there are two important principles here: 1. We can't please everybody 2. Relationship is a long-term commitment. So I'd say that you should follow your heart of hearts. What do you think is the right thing to do in the long term? Josh,
I don’t know your situation in detail so my suggestion might not apply to you. Anyway, I think there are two important principles here:
1. We can’t please everybody
2. Relationship is a long-term commitment.
So I’d say that you should follow your heart of hearts. What do you think is the right thing to do in the long term?

]]> By: josh http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-93417 josh Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:14:52 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-93417 I came on here seeing if I can get help I have a fiancee of two years who I love but dont feel attached to and also one of my childhood sweeties is coming back into the picture I just want to make everyone happy and I know the events to follow if I break it off with my fiance and its our anniversary today what do I do I came on here seeing if I can get help I have a fiancee of two years who I love but dont feel attached to and also one of my childhood sweeties is coming back into the picture I just want to make everyone happy and I know the events to follow if I break it off with my fiance and its our anniversary today what do I do

]]> By: The Root of it All | bdentzy http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/08/08/relationship-problems/comment-page-1/#comment-93305 The Root of it All | bdentzy Tue, 19 Aug 2008 17:42:53 +0000 http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/?p=426#comment-93305 [...] the LifeOptimizer blog posting “Two Basic Relationship Problems,” the author, Donald Latumahina, breaks down both the value of relationships and what he sees [...] [...] the LifeOptimizer blog posting “Two Basic Relationship Problems,” the author, Donald Latumahina, breaks down both the value of relationships and what he sees [...]

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