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	<title>Comments on: Top 10 Things You Should Change in Your Life to Get What You Want</title>
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	<description>Live Life to the Fullest - Personal Growth and Effectiveness</description>
	<pubDate>Wed, 03 Dec 2008 06:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Monthly Roundup: June 2008</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-101436</link>
		<dc:creator>Monthly Roundup: June 2008</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Oct 2008 10:52:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Top 10 Things You Should Change in Your Life to Get What You Want [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Rhoda Bharucha</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-97966</link>
		<dc:creator>Rhoda Bharucha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2008 06:02:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you your suggestions are really useful &#38; practical</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you your suggestions are really useful &amp; practical</p>
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		<title>By: Foo Thoughts &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Get What You Want in Life</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-88844</link>
		<dc:creator>Foo Thoughts &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Get What You Want in Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 02:02:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] want in life, we have two choices. One, sit there and brawl about how life is bad and lousy. Two, do something about it. Friends are often the ones who influence our actions and thinking. We can have a change of friends [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] want in life, we have two choices. One, sit there and brawl about how life is bad and lousy. Two, do something about it. Friends are often the ones who influence our actions and thinking. We can have a change of friends [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-82282</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Jul 2008 13:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jonathan,
I don't participate in link exchange. Thanks for stopping by.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jonathan,<br />
I don&#8217;t participate in link exchange. Thanks for stopping by.</p>
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		<title>By: Jonathan</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-81972</link>
		<dc:creator>Jonathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 03:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! I truly enjoyed it....I would like to do a link exchange with you and have our blogs linked.  My blog would make a great addition to your positive blog links, and I would like to share yours with my readers.  Here is my link: http://enlightenyourday.com/

Let me know what you think
Kindest Regards,
Jonathan
If your interested leave me a message on my site....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! I truly enjoyed it&#8230;.I would like to do a link exchange with you and have our blogs linked.  My blog would make a great addition to your positive blog links, and I would like to share yours with my readers.  Here is my link: <a href="http://enlightenyourday.com/" rel="nofollow">http://enlightenyourday.com/</a></p>
<p>Let me know what you think<br />
Kindest Regards,<br />
Jonathan<br />
If your interested leave me a message on my site&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-81801</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 09:56:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laurie,
&lt;blockquote&gt;instead of putting the energy into breaking a habit, put all your energy into making a new one.
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
That's a good idea. Often the more attention we give to a bad habit the more difficult it is to break. Directing our attention to building a good habit instead may give us better result.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laurie,</p>
<blockquote><p>instead of putting the energy into breaking a habit, put all your energy into making a new one.
</p></blockquote>
<p>That&#8217;s a good idea. Often the more attention we give to a bad habit the more difficult it is to break. Directing our attention to building a good habit instead may give us better result.</p>
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		<title>By: Laurie</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-81645</link>
		<dc:creator>Laurie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 16:13:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great post! I especially like that you've given action items and not just leaving the reader hanging, wondering what to do with the information.

Re: habits - good advice. A few years ago, I read &lt;em&gt;The Inner Game of Tennis&lt;/em&gt; where Tim Gallwey wrote instead of putting the energy into breaking a habit, put all your energy into making a new one. Big light bulb went on for me that day.

I'm looking forward to more of your posts on happiness!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great post! I especially like that you&#8217;ve given action items and not just leaving the reader hanging, wondering what to do with the information.</p>
<p>Re: habits - good advice. A few years ago, I read <em>The Inner Game of Tennis</em> where Tim Gallwey wrote instead of putting the energy into breaking a habit, put all your energy into making a new one. Big light bulb went on for me that day.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to more of your posts on happiness!</p>
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		<title>By: Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-79558</link>
		<dc:creator>Flora Morris Brown, Ph.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 21:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are instances when we need to change friends. As we mature and evolve we sometimes realize that some old friends are manipulative, deceptive and only interested in dysfunctional relationships. We will begin to attract healthier relationships and the unhealthy ones need to be shed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are instances when we need to change friends. As we mature and evolve we sometimes realize that some old friends are manipulative, deceptive and only interested in dysfunctional relationships. We will begin to attract healthier relationships and the unhealthy ones need to be shed.</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/06/25/change-in-your-life-get-what-you-want/#comment-79328</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 18:22:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JoLynn,
What a coincidence we wrote about the same topic :) 
You're right, we need to get out of our comfort zone. That's perhaps the most difficult part of change.

Erin,
I'm glad that - more than just reading - you have &lt;em&gt;experienced&lt;/em&gt; the points here.

Annie,
The way you wrote it makes me laugh :) Anyway, you are not alone. I also need to change my bad habits.

Brad,
I'm glad you find it useful.

Ramesh,
Yes, we can't dump our current friends. I use the title because I tried to write each title as short as possible while keeping all of them in the same form ("Change your ..."). I personally don't feel that the title suggests me to dump my current friends, but that's perhaps just me, which is why I explained it further in the first sentence of the point.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JoLynn,<br />
What a coincidence we wrote about the same topic :)<br />
You&#8217;re right, we need to get out of our comfort zone. That&#8217;s perhaps the most difficult part of change.</p>
<p>Erin,<br />
I&#8217;m glad that - more than just reading - you have <em>experienced</em> the points here.</p>
<p>Annie,<br />
The way you wrote it makes me laugh :) Anyway, you are not alone. I also need to change my bad habits.</p>
<p>Brad,<br />
I&#8217;m glad you find it useful.</p>
<p>Ramesh,<br />
Yes, we can&#8217;t dump our current friends. I use the title because I tried to write each title as short as possible while keeping all of them in the same form (&#8221;Change your &#8230;&#8221;). I personally don&#8217;t feel that the title suggests me to dump my current friends, but that&#8217;s perhaps just me, which is why I explained it further in the first sentence of the point.</p>
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		<title>By: 27 Posts are on Today&#8217;s Gratitude List &#171; Fruitful Words</title>
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		<dc:creator>27 Posts are on Today&#8217;s Gratitude List &#171; Fruitful Words</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 07:16:03 +0000</pubDate>
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