You always pass failure on the way to success.
Mickey Rooney
Failure is inevitable if we are to succeed in life. Unfortunately, many people do not know how to overcome failure, and they are stopped by it when they encounter one. The ability to overcome failure is one big difference between successful and mediocre people. After all, we should pass failure on the way to success, so it is the ability to pass it that makes the difference between those who eventually reach success and those who don’t.
So, knowing that overcoming failure is essential, what should we do? Here are some tips to help you overcome failure:
1. Rise up and don’t regret; you have spent your time wisely
A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.
George Bernard Shaw
When we fail, we might be tempted to think that we have wasted our time and thus regret it. But that’s should not be the case. The fact that you have done something is much better than doing nothing. Many people who despise persons who fail never do anything themselves. Rise up and move on. The regret lies not in doing, but in not doing.
2. Understand that failure is there to bring you wisdom
Good people are good because they’ve come to wisdom through failure.
William Saroyan
Failure is there not without a reason. It’s there to give you the wisdom you need to succeed. Each failure you encounter increases your wisdom and brings you one step closer to success. If you have this mindset, you will see failure differently. You will see each failure as an opportunity to learn.
3. Learn as much as possible from the failure
Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.
Albert Einstein
While failure brings you wisdom, how much wisdom you will get depends entirely on your ability to harvest it. So don’t waste the opportunity to learn; harvest wisdom as much as possible from the failure. If you fail to do this, you may waste a lot of time by repeating the same mistakes in the future.
4. Don’t give up; maybe you are only one step away from success
Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
Thomas A. Edison
The thought of giving up is tempting, especially when we have failed over and over again. But who knows that maybe you are only one step away from success? Will you waste the long journey you have passed when you are already so close to your destination?
So hold on tight and don’t give up. Thomas Edison failed thousands of times to perfect the light bulb. He knew what it means not to give up.
5. Maintain your enthusiasm
Not only you should keep on trying, you should also do it with the same level of enthusiasm as when you first began. Otherwise your subsequent effort will have less and less power.
So how do you maintain enthusiasm? One good way is by realizing that you are now one step closer to success thanks to the lessons you learn. There’s no reason not to be enthusiastic when you are getting closer to success. Another way is to keep your mind on the destination, which brings us to the next point.
6. Keep dreaming big dreams
Always have your destination in mind; keep dreaming your big dreams. Spend time to visualize them and let the dreams energize you. Let them make you passionate and enthusiastic. Once you cease dreaming, soon you will also lose your energy and be back to mediocrity. To overcome all the obstacles you encounter you always need a greater why, and that why is provided by your dreams.
7. Keep your confidence in yourself
Don’t be afraid of the space between your dreams and reality. If you can dream it, you can make it so.
Belva Davis
Keep your confidence in yourself despite the failure. Of course, you need to put a lot of effort and learn as much as possible from the failure, but you have the ability to make your dream come true. Many people who achieve great undertakings have no special trait. They are just ordinary people with extraordinary attitude. Let’s be one of them.
Update:
This post is my submission to the group writing project at Litemind.
Photo by Behrooz Nobakht

Comment by dorksgetlaid2
7 7. November 2007, 10:50 pm o'clock |
In regards to number 5:
Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm.
- Winston Churchill
Comment by Donald Latumahina
6 7. November 2007, 9:17 pm o'clock |
Quint,
I agree, preparing for failure makes it less frightening. That’s a good way to connect ‘overcoming failure’ with ‘fear of failure’.
And your second comment gives us good description about the role of failure on the road to success.
Doug,
I agree with Quint’s comment on this. Failure is inevitable at some points. The statement ‘Failure is inevitable’ here actually comes from the quote ‘You always pass failure on the way to success.’ On the way to success, there are pitfalls at some points which we cannot avoid.
Comment by Quint
5 7. November 2007, 4:44 pm o'clock |
@Doug
I think it is more appropriate to say that failure is inevitable at some point. Failure isn’t inevitable in any given venture. If that were so, it wouldn’t make sense to take any risk. That being said, I don’t think there are any successful people that haven’t experienced some failure on the path to their dreams. Failure seems to be a prerequisite for success. It tests us to find out how committed we are to the dream, and teaches us lessons we will need to know along the way.
Comment by Douglas Woods
4 7. November 2007, 4:04 pm o'clock |
Why do you say failure is inevitable? Surely this cannot be true, failure is always a possibilty but never inevitable?
Doug
http://www.dougwoods.com
Comment by Quint
3 7. November 2007, 2:56 pm o'clock |
Fear of failure can really be a roadblock on the way to achieving our dreams. I think we often avoid situations where failure is a possibility because we don’t have any plans for dealing with failure. If we can prepare ahead of time using the tips you provide here, it will seem less frightening and less devastating.
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