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	<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 22:02:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: #49. Read &#8216;The 1001 List Of Quality Reads&#8217; &#171; 6ixx</title>
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		<dc:creator>#49. Read &#8216;The 1001 List Of Quality Reads&#8217; &#171; 6ixx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 06:55:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Know 700. 17 Things You Must Know Before Buying A Car 701. 14 Reasons to Become More Conscious 702. 30 Ways to Increase Your Mental Capacity 703. Connie Rice: Top 10 Secrets They Donâ€™t Want You to Know About the Debates 704. 50 [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/08/02/30-ways-to-increase-your-mental-capacity/#comment-74619</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 09:50:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lorelei,
Thanks for the information!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lorelei,<br />
Thanks for the information!</p>
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		<title>By: Lorelei F</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/08/02/30-ways-to-increase-your-mental-capacity/#comment-74479</link>
		<dc:creator>Lorelei F</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jun 2008 16:44:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In a course I recently took through Landmark Education the 'homework' was to do something you have never done before every week. It was hugely powerful. I suggest a course called The Landmark Forum, by the way, to anyone who has not done it. Talk about something different. It rocks yor world.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a course I recently took through Landmark Education the &#8216;homework&#8217; was to do something you have never done before every week. It was hugely powerful. I suggest a course called The Landmark Forum, by the way, to anyone who has not done it. Talk about something different. It rocks yor world.</p>
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		<title>By: Accelerate Your Abilities &#124; Self Help Station</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/08/02/30-ways-to-increase-your-mental-capacity/#comment-63177</link>
		<dc:creator>Accelerate Your Abilities &#124; Self Help Station</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 18:59:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] this in mind, and with your desire to become increasingly successful, here are some ways to accelerate your abilities, thus enabling you to achieve greater and greater [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] this in mind, and with your desire to become increasingly successful, here are some ways to accelerate your abilities, thus enabling you to achieve greater and greater [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Richard Kuhns Hypnosis Stress Management Specialist</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/08/02/30-ways-to-increase-your-mental-capacity/#comment-45380</link>
		<dc:creator>Richard Kuhns Hypnosis Stress Management Specialist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Dec 2007 03:42:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It's a great recipe for adding some spice in life and may be quite helpful for someone dealing with depression.  The last post however, seems more like copy for a David Letterman show.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a great recipe for adding some spice in life and may be quite helpful for someone dealing with depression.  The last post however, seems more like copy for a David Letterman show.</p>
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		<title>By: 22 Things You Can Do Daily to Improve Your Life &#171; KNizam Artwerk</title>
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		<dc:creator>22 Things You Can Do Daily to Improve Your Life &#171; KNizam Artwerk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2007 11:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Do something for the first time. Either find something new you have never done before, or find a new way to do something (e.g. taking a different route to work). This is to increase your mental capacity. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Do something for the first time. Either find something new you have never done before, or find a new way to do something (e.g. taking a different route to work). This is to increase your mental capacity. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/08/02/30-ways-to-increase-your-mental-capacity/#comment-36671</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 00:15:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting. Thanks, Genida.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting. Thanks, Genida.</p>
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		<title>By: Genida</title>
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		<dc:creator>Genida</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2007 11:09:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The 'do what's outside your comfort zone' thing is quite like something you'd find in 'flow' theory, you should check that out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The &#8216;do what&#8217;s outside your comfort zone&#8217; thing is quite like something you&#8217;d find in &#8216;flow&#8217; theory, you should check that out.</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:04:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Douglas,

In my situation, "no" seems to be the default answer due to the desire to "focus on the important". This may go overboard though, which is why I wrote the first tip. I admit that the tip is subjective; it's more suitable for people who are in similar condition as mine.

Your situation is different because the default answer is "yes", and I agree with you that in such condition it's more important (and more productive) to learn to say "no".</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Douglas,</p>
<p>In my situation, &#8220;no&#8221; seems to be the default answer due to the desire to &#8220;focus on the important&#8221;. This may go overboard though, which is why I wrote the first tip. I admit that the tip is subjective; it&#8217;s more suitable for people who are in similar condition as mine.</p>
<p>Your situation is different because the default answer is &#8220;yes&#8221;, and I agree with you that in such condition it&#8217;s more important (and more productive) to learn to say &#8220;no&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Douglas Woods</title>
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		<dc:creator>Douglas Woods</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 08:41:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are some excellent tips here. It is just the first one that I have problems with. In my work I find that there are too many people who will always say 'yes' to any request, whether they can do it or not! Not surprisingly this adds to their stress levels. Quite often in reality they have neither the time nor the skills to do what has been asked of them.

It seems that people are worried about saying 'no' because they fel they are saying 'no' to the person, when in reality they are saying 'no' to the request.
Equally, there are people who 'manage' or 'manipulate' people because they know they will not say 'no' to them.

It is really the second part of your first tip which I feel is more important .. say 'no' when it is appropriate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are some excellent tips here. It is just the first one that I have problems with. In my work I find that there are too many people who will always say &#8216;yes&#8217; to any request, whether they can do it or not! Not surprisingly this adds to their stress levels. Quite often in reality they have neither the time nor the skills to do what has been asked of them.</p>
<p>It seems that people are worried about saying &#8216;no&#8217; because they fel they are saying &#8216;no&#8217; to the person, when in reality they are saying &#8216;no&#8217; to the request.<br />
Equally, there are people who &#8216;manage&#8217; or &#8216;manipulate&#8217; people because they know they will not say &#8216;no&#8217; to them.</p>
<p>It is really the second part of your first tip which I feel is more important .. say &#8216;no&#8217; when it is appropriate.</p>
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