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	<title>Comments on: 33 Tips to Become a Well Liked Person</title>
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		<title>By: MefFiefsedide</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/comment-page-1/#comment-144477</link>
		<dc:creator>MefFiefsedide</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 17:36:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There  is a lot of talikng about Michael Jackson dead, it&#039;s a very  sad for me because I lvoe his music, I still didn&#039;t believe in his dead. Hi was a definitely  King of music</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There  is a lot of talikng about Michael Jackson dead, it&#8217;s a very  sad for me because I lvoe his music, I still didn&#8217;t believe in his dead. Hi was a definitely  King of music</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/comment-page-1/#comment-143113</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:49:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Vipin,
No, I don&#039;t suggest you to please everybody. That, as Bill Cosby once said, is a sure path to failure. What I suggest is to increase your likability. Some people will still don&#039;t like you and that&#039;s fine. But you build the intrinsic qualities that make many people &lt;em&gt;naturally&lt;/em&gt; like you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Vipin,<br />
No, I don&#8217;t suggest you to please everybody. That, as Bill Cosby once said, is a sure path to failure. What I suggest is to increase your likability. Some people will still don&#8217;t like you and that&#8217;s fine. But you build the intrinsic qualities that make many people <em>naturally</em> like you.</p>
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		<title>By: Vipin</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/comment-page-1/#comment-142469</link>
		<dc:creator>Vipin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jun 2009 08:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Donald Latumahina,

I love to read all ur features posted here and i like them as well. 

But i m not agree with this feature... because &quot;don&#039;t ever try to please everybody&quot; here u clearly mentioned that please everybody with ur efforts. If we are trying to please everyone,this indicates that &quot;There is some fault in our attitude so that no one can attracts toward us&quot;....   Pls suggest....

Thanks 
Vipin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Donald Latumahina,</p>
<p>I love to read all ur features posted here and i like them as well. </p>
<p>But i m not agree with this feature&#8230; because &#8220;don&#8217;t ever try to please everybody&#8221; here u clearly mentioned that please everybody with ur efforts. If we are trying to please everyone,this indicates that &#8220;There is some fault in our attitude so that no one can attracts toward us&#8221;&#8230;.   Pls suggest&#8230;.</p>
<p>Thanks<br />
Vipin</p>
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		<title>By: 33????????????? &#124; ???</title>
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		<dc:creator>33????????????? &#124; ???</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 04:55:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Latumahina ????? 33 Tips to Become a Well Liked Person [...]</description>
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		<title>By: bhim</title>
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		<dc:creator>bhim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Oct 2008 02:59:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thats the gr8 liners i need to take from u..thanx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thats the gr8 liners i need to take from u..thanx</p>
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		<title>By: #49. Read &#8216;The 1001 List Of Quality Reads&#8217; &#171; 6ixx</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/comment-page-1/#comment-76283</link>
		<dc:creator>#49. Read &#8216;The 1001 List Of Quality Reads&#8217; &#171; 6ixx</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 06:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Reasons Why Tom Keating Loves Asterisk 100. Ten Things You Can Do Today to Jump-start Success 101. 33 Tips to Become a Well Liked Person 102. 45 things we can do to save the enviornment 103. Wikipedia:10 things you did not know about [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/comment-page-1/#comment-63119</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2008 08:45:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gina,
You&#039;re welcome! I&#039;m glad you find it useful.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gina,<br />
You&#8217;re welcome! I&#8217;m glad you find it useful.</p>
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		<title>By: Get A New Attitude &#124; Self Help Station</title>
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		<dc:creator>Get A New Attitude &#124; Self Help Station</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2008 18:25:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] you answered “no” to any of the questions above, then you may want to take a look at your attitude, because so much depends on [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Gina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Mar 2008 23:04:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WOW thanks for your help! This really is the best advice i&#039;ve ever gotton that was so on target to the question! it helped alot!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>WOW thanks for your help! This really is the best advice i&#8217;ve ever gotton that was so on target to the question! it helped alot!!</p>
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		<title>By: Donald Latumahina</title>
		<link>http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2007/07/25/33-tips-to-become-a-well-liked-person/comment-page-1/#comment-42913</link>
		<dc:creator>Donald Latumahina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Nov 2007 16:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tamlyn,
Thanks for the insights! I&#039;m glad you share some of your personal experiences. You remind us about the importance of keeping the balance between our interest and other people&#039;s interest. 

Many people think more about their own interest, and the role of this post is to get the balance back by asking us to also think about others&#039; interest. But we can go to the other extreme in which we think about others&#039; interest at the expense of ours, just as you described. The key is keeping the balance between both of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tamlyn,<br />
Thanks for the insights! I&#8217;m glad you share some of your personal experiences. You remind us about the importance of keeping the balance between our interest and other people&#8217;s interest. </p>
<p>Many people think more about their own interest, and the role of this post is to get the balance back by asking us to also think about others&#8217; interest. But we can go to the other extreme in which we think about others&#8217; interest at the expense of ours, just as you described. The key is keeping the balance between both of them.</p>
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